Give Me Feedback on My Gay Hong Baos

crystal
2 min readDec 28, 2023

Hello everyone!

Today I have something very different from my usual articles. 😎

I’ve been working on a project for the past couple of months, and would love your feedback/input.

During a wedding a year ago, I noticed that all of the wedding hong baos I was seeing were either straight-coded or just traditional (fertility symbols!). I wanted to see some hong baos that celebrate non-straight marriages, so I made some designs.

The colours I’ve used are super non-traditional (sapphic flag, gay flag, rainbow) so I’m a bit nervous about the public reception of that — I’m aware that hong baos, like most culturally significant artefacts, have deeply rooted iconography and colouring. Rather than trying to take away from that, I’m trying to add to that body so more people within the culture are included and celebrated.

I would really appreciate your feedback, thoughts or advice on design, printing, the project overall, and whether you’d be interested in them if I made a webstore?

Thanks in advance! And please no racism or homophobia ☆゚°˖* ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

A hong bao design showing the front and back. The front features a rainbow that radiates out from the centre, with a sun and moon smiling happily at each other in the middle. The back of the hong bao is pastel purple with a rainbow flap and small white stars scattered over it.
A design based on the general rainbow flag! The back could have different pastel colourways.
A two-sided hong bao design with the colours of the sapphic flag done in a watercolour style on both sides. The front has a persimmon tree sketch in light pencil, and the back has a flap and two leaves in the same colour.
A design based on the colours of the sapphic flag. I’ve included iconography of a persimmon tree and was aiming for a design that was both soft and strong.
A two-sided hong bao design featuring the colours of the gay flag (not the pride flag). The front has smallish blue, white and green rainbows in each corner, wavy aqua borders and a large sparkling blue heart in the middle with a smaller, darker blue heart next to it. The back has a blue, green and white rainbow acting as the opening flap.
Based on the colours of the gay flag. I wanted a design that celebrated soft wholesome masc, and I think it came out quite “Steven Universe-y”, which I’m not mad at.
A two-sided hong bao design in the traditional orange-red and yellow colouring. The front features two detailed linework dragons coming together towards the centre from the top-right and bottom-left corners, with a star, moon and heart between them. The top-left and bottom-right corners have decorative waves. The back of the hong bao has some waves on the opening flap, along with a star on the top of the flap and a heart on the bottom.
There is a style of wedding hong bao that features a dragon and a phoenix pair, representing the masc + femme. Sooo here’s a double dragon design :) I’ve used more traditional colours for those who want to keep those colours.

Thank you very much for looking at my designs! I hope you find this project affirming and supportive of your communities and intersections and I welcome your feedback and advice 💖

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crystal

Doing coding things (badly) and drawing things (less badly). Slowly working on a game about trauma recovery and running an lgbtqia+ hong bao shop.